Before & After Love

Before ♥ :

This is the phase which almost all of us have gone through during our teenage years, i.e. our Adolescence age. This is when philosophies like Love interest us a lot and its for obvious reasons. Today, it attracts more than what it would do earlier, thanks to such powerful communication system that we have today. Especially Social Networking sites like Facebook, Orkut, MySpace. And not to miss out on easy to go access to almost any information you wish to have via Google. Blogs (including this post) are going to increase that “want” to experience and feel the much hyped Love. This is when we in-spite of now knowing how it really feels, are eager to experience it. We see friends around us already enjoying it, we see bogs, quotes, stories, not to forget Movies, romantic songs all of it really the reason for giving the real hype to Love.

When ♥ Happens :

I wouldn’t want to elaborate much on this. Don’t want to spoil the “want” feeling for all those who are in the Before Love stage yet. This is the stage when you are in Love, you feel the world is in your hand. You have a reason to live, you feel special, you feel blessed. You probably relate to all sorts of Romantic movies, songs and hence be glad with seeing that the all of your dreams come true, glad to see your life having a motive and reason to live.

After ♥ :

Well, you may wonder, what does After Love really mean here. It’s some thing that most Love stories go through in reality, Most Love stories start soon and at a certain time reach a point when due to some or the other reasons just End, to an extent that you are no more in talking terms with each other too. OK, I am talking about the ones that end up being with no one, not about those who switch from one lover to another and in fact break-up for the that reason. This is the phase when you suddenly see your dreams(related to living a happy life with someone special) shattered right in front of you and moreover, you are helpless. You may get a promotion, admission in the college you always wanted to go to, be it any great event, the happiness somehow feels weak and not so exciting. And all of it, is only because you don’t see a future, you are so used to being felt special, being an important part of someone’s life, which actually makes you feel blessed and which gives life a new meaning, a reason to live for.

Its strange, how Love really plays an important role in our life. It’s so much a factor for you to live a happy life. Most who have a love story will be already under some sort of a thought process by now. I’d just leave you’ll with this amazing song from a Bollywood movie Dum Maaro Dum which probably describes the After Love part of the post.

6 thoughts on “Before & After Love

  1. Rahul April 28, 2011 at 4:47 PM Reply

    After Love part is a harsh reality in most cases

  2. Aishwarya August 28, 2011 at 11:06 PM Reply

    I love the being in love ( relationship) part. And according to me ‘after love’ does not exist. Even though we might never talk to that person forever, we still want them to be safe and that shows we care about them. Love changes form. But it doesn’t make an exit.

    I feel Love is forever. Relationships are time bound:)

    • Mohit August 28, 2011 at 11:14 PM Reply

      Love remains forever is the cause for that After Love story actually.
      Point is, if love remains, then you are bound to miss love both ways. Isn’t it? that’s all I have talked about. 🙂

  3. sydneydxb August 30, 2011 at 7:23 PM Reply

    This was a nice read! And I thought your post on the must have Apps was very informatove!

    • Mohit August 30, 2011 at 10:08 PM Reply

      Thank You! 🙂

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